

If you know Maggie it won't surprise you that she chose the Mater souvenir.



Here we are on the train!





Posted by Sita, Shalie, Kalia, and Vili at 10:57 PM 5 comments
The other day I needed to go out to the car to grab something. As I headed for the door, Ella stopped me and we had this conversation:
Ella: Dad, you going to eBay?
Me: No, honey. I'm just going to the car.
Ella: Ella go to eBay?
No: No honey. I'm just going to the car. I'll be right back.
Ella: oh, no eBay?
Me: No Bear. I'm just going to the car.
Ella: ok...ummm...I wanna...umm...hambuger....and umm...some milk and...umm
Me: Honey, I'm not going to the store. Just to the car.
Ella: Ok. Love you dad
Me: (laugh) Love you too Ella bear.
As I walked to the car and back, I thought about this little conversation. It was funny because it gave me a little window into my funny little girl's mind. More importantly, it reminded me that my actions--whether intended or not--are being monitored at all times.
From that conversation, I learned that my daughter is aware that when I leave, most of the time it's to go to where I work, eBay. I know she doesn't understand why I go to eBay, but she does understand that when I leave her, it's a good chance that eBay's where I'm going. I can also tell that she thinks eBay's somewhere I want to be. She always wants to come with me to eBay. She's come inside a couple times and loves it even though all she's ever done is sit with me at my desk while I grab a couple things.
I also learned that she thinks if I'm not going to eBay, the next most likely place is to get food. For those who might have been confused by what she was saying on the conversation above, let me explain. She was putting in an order. Like I said in the previous post, Shay and I love food. Obviously, by Ella's observation, I go out to get food a lot--whether it be groceries or fast food. Just like when I ask Shalie if she wants anything while I'm out, Ella puts in her order. If I'm not going to eBay, it must be to get food. That's got to be a statistic somewhere at some fat camp: If going to get food is in your top 2 reasons for leaving your house, you're probably fat.
While it may seem like a pretty simple conversation, it really opened my eyes to what those 2 beautiful, little eyes see everyday. It also made me want to be better. While she may not have all the "whys," she does have a great grasp of the "whats." Ella sees me leave everyday and she assumes that where I go is a good place. A place where people want to be. A place where she wants to be. She also assumes that if I'm not going to that place, that I'm going to go get food for our family; to provide for them. Ella assumes that I'm only in good places and doing good things. I'm productive. I'm on the right path. I'm taking advantage of life.
It made me ask myself, " do I live up to those assumptions?"
All I could think of was, "you better."
Must be the universe talking to the Ripley's again. Leave it to a 2 year old to give you a better perspective on yourself. Children are like super clean, empty glasses, vacant of substance but so clean and innocent that all you can see is your own reflection. Life's full of irony.
Anyway, I was comforted by one thing. Then end of the conversation did bear one assumption that I can definitely admit to immediately:
Ella: Ok. Love you Dad
(Laugh)
Love you too Ella bear.
Posted by Sita, Shalie, Kalia, and Vili at 11:52 PM 3 comments
Posted by Sita, Shalie, Kalia, and Vili at 10:30 PM 4 comments
Some of you may have heard this phrase before. It was actually used in the Declaration of Colonial Rights which was created in 1774 to respond to what Americans called the Intolerable acts which were basically laws that England created to put the Americans further under the crown's control (don't worry this isn't going to be a history lesson).
What makes this phrase interesting is the much more well known phrase that was used 2 years later in our Declaration of Independence: Life, Liberty, and The Pursuit of Happiness.
It's funny to think that at one time "property" was substituted for happiness. My first reaction to that was, "how materialistic of them."
But then I got thinking.
Shalie and I have recently been looking for a house to buy. Luckily, I recently received a promotion at eBay that put us in a position where we're financially able to get into a house. The best part is we found one! We're extremely excited and can't wait to move in!
Posted by Sita, Shalie, Kalia, and Vili at 8:05 AM 13 comments
"I don't know what it is, but something just doesn't feel right."
That was Jake's answer to Tenely.
Hmmm...
What didn't feel right?
Maybe we don't want to know.
The finale (which I didn't watch) apparently ended up with our Prince Charming choosing his princess Vienna.
"I have never had this much heat in a relationship," Jake said of Vienna. "It's like a fairy tale every day."
I mean, he does have a point. Fairly tales are about how passionate the bedroom is. Ariel would be some shriveled up vegetable thingy in Ursula's house if she hadn't been so forward trying to get Eric to kiss her all the time (He took like 3 days before he put out...whatev). I mean, Rapunzel let her prince pull her hair the first time he met her. Is this really what we're telling our children? If you want to end up like sleeping beauty, your booty needs to be on duty?
Maybe it's just me, but that doesn't sound right.
Anyway, I'm really happy the show ended this way. Mostly because it proves I'm right. What's funny is homeboy didn't even try to pretend why he chose her. He just said it.
With that said, I hope they live happily ever after...
for the next 8 months or so.
Posted by Sita, Shalie, Kalia, and Vili at 11:30 PM 1 comments